Top or Bottom

On steamy conversations about gay men and women, the question ‘TOP or BOTTOM’ would one way or another cross the discussion. As it did me before.

When a friend casually asked…
so are you a top or a bottom?

I stopped and think in a very ‘sensual’ way.

I'm a top. Always have been.

Although being ‘the bottom’ is a popular choice. Perhaps not knowing what will happen next is already exciting as it is! Laying there relatively relaxed, gives me more grip as I kiss and meet her gaze, feeling her long brown hair fall on mine. So putting her in control and feeling her body move against me is quite captivating.

Then again, there’s something about control that triumphs over submission. Not to mention the steamy and stimulating drive of power that comes with it. I call the shots. I speed up or gear down whatever suits her fancy. I move as she waits impatiently. I tease til she gets to that ‘come-here-baby’ moment where she pulls and moans softly against my ear…..
Deep breathes..

A few ticks later, earth called me back… ano na? top or bottom?

Without batting an eyelash I answered with a squeak: Top! Definitely! ;)